{"id":3532,"date":"2010-03-09T08:51:04","date_gmt":"2010-03-09T16:51:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shibashake.com\/dog\/?p=3532"},"modified":"2010-03-09T08:51:04","modified_gmt":"2010-03-09T16:51:04","slug":"embarrassed-by-my-dog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shibashake.com\/dog\/embarrassed-by-my-dog\/","title":{"rendered":"Embarrassed by My Dog"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Do you get embarrassed when your dog misbehaves in public?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>When I first got Shiba Sephy I was constantly embarrassed by him. <\/p>\n<p>Being <a href=\"http:\/\/shibashake.com\/dog\/shiba-inu-personality-good-bad-traits\">a Shiba Inu<\/a>, he is not very interested in being a model citizen, and more interested in doing whatever he wants.<\/p>\n<p>I took him out on <em>five<\/em> 30-45 minute walks every day, but he was still a very <a href=\"http:\/\/shibashake.com\/dog\/hyperactive-dogs-how-to-calm-a-hyper-dog-or-hyper-puppy\">wild, hyper thing<\/a> inside and outside the house. <\/p>\n<div id='3464' class='wp-caption frame3 aligncenter' style='width:520px' ><div class='shiba-outer shiba-gallery' ><div class='shiba-stage' style='width:520px'><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/IMG_3180-520x390.jpg\" alt=\"Shiba Sephy - A terror that flaps in the night.\" title=\"IMG_3180\" width=\"520\" height=\"390\" class=\"size-large wp-image-3464\" \/><div class='wp-caption-text shiba-caption'>Shiba Sephy - A terror that flaps in the night.<\/div><\/div> <!-- End shiba-stage --><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"alignspace\"><\/div>\n<p><strong>The worst was his <a href=\"http:\/\/shibashake.com\/dog\/train-your-dog-to-stop-biting-on-the-leash\">leash biting<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div id='2619' class='wp-caption frame3 alignright' style='width:280px' ><div class='shiba-outer shiba-gallery' ><div class='shiba-stage' style='width:280px'><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/IMG_0043-280x210.jpg\" alt=\"Don&#039;t let that sweet innocent Shiba look fool you.\" title=\"IMG_0043\" width=\"280\" height=\"210\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2619\" \/><div class='wp-caption-text shiba-caption'>Don't let that sweet innocent Shiba look fool you.<\/div><\/div> <!-- End shiba-stage --><\/div><\/div>\n<p>If I tried to stop him from doing something during our walks, he would redirect his frustrations onto the leash and sometimes onto me. Several times, <a href=\"http:\/\/shibashake.com\/dog\/stop-your-dog-from-jumping-on-people\">he jumped on me<\/a> and did <em>kill-moves<\/em> on my jacket sleeve.<\/p>\n<p>This was all very entertaining for my neighbors. <\/p>\n<p>Many of them would watch from their windows, or even come out of their house to get front-row seats during our leash-biting dance. Many of them also offered free dog training advice; much of which was conflicting and inaccurate. <\/p>\n<p><strong><em>It seems that everyone is an expert when it comes to someone elses&#8217; dog.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Needless to say, I was very embarrassed by Sephy&#8217;s behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Because I was embarrassed, I got frustrated and angry with him, which made him get even more <em>Shiba crazy<\/em>.<\/p>\n<div id='2628' class='wp-caption frame3 aligncenter' style='width:520px' ><div class='shiba-outer shiba-gallery' ><div class='shiba-stage' style='width:520px'><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/IMG_01751-520x390.jpg\" alt=\"Shiba Sephy pretending to be a model citizen.\" title=\"IMG_0175\" width=\"520\" height=\"390\" class=\"size-large wp-image-2628\" \/><div class='wp-caption-text shiba-caption'>Shiba Sephy pretending to be a model citizen.<\/div><\/div> <!-- End shiba-stage --><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"div-poll\">\n<a name=\"pd_a_2816831\"><\/a>\n<div class=\"CSS_Poll PDS_Poll\" id=\"PDI_container2816831\" style=\"display:inline-block;\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"PD_superContainer\"><\/div>\n<!-- Shiba add defer async -->\n<script defer async type=\"text\/javascript\" charset=\"UTF-8\" src=\"\/\/static.polldaddy.com\/p\/2816831.js\"><\/script>\n<noscript><a href=\"https:\/\/poll.fm\/2816831\">Take Our Poll<\/a><\/noscript>\n<\/div>\n<p>Finally, I decided that this path of embarrassment only led to bad things; for both Sephy and me. <\/p>\n<p>Rather than be worried by what random strangers thought about my dog parenting skills, it was more important to do what was best for Sephy and help him live a happy, low-stress life.<\/p>\n<p>Once I put my ego into cold storage and started to focus on my dog, things improved significantly. I also realized that most of my previous spectators had problem dogs of their own, and were probably just as embarrassed as I was. <\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\nWhen it comes to dog training &#8211; it is best to gather information on your own and make up your own mind in terms of what makes the most sense for your dog.\n<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>It is human nature to be affected by what others think of us. <\/p>\n<p>However, when I start to feel that way, I consciously refocus on the well-being of my dogs and let people on the street think whatever they want. <\/p>\n<div id='2461' class='wp-caption frame3 aligncenter' style='width:520px' ><div class='shiba-outer shiba-gallery' ><div class='shiba-stage' style='width:520px'><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/IMG_3102-520x390.jpg\" alt=\"Whenever I start feeling embarassed, I consciously refocus on the well-being of my dogs. They are the ones that matter most.\" title=\"IMG_3102\" width=\"520\" height=\"390\" class=\"size-large wp-image-2461\" \/><div class='wp-caption-text shiba-caption'>Whenever I start feeling embarassed, I consciously refocus on the well-being of my dogs. They are the ones that matter most.<\/div><\/div> <!-- End shiba-stage --><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I got my first dog, I was constantly embarrassed by him. He was very hyper and very stubborn, so training him was a challenge. Whenever he misbehaved in public, I would get embarrassed because his bad behavior reflected poorly on me and my dog parenting skills. The more embarrassed I got, the more crazy my dog became. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3464,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":""},"categories":[65,113],"tags":[652,653,654,655,656,657,658,659,660,661],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3532"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3532"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3532\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3464"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3532"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3532"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shibashake.com\/dog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3532"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}